Anyone else have a question?
I see a woman and a child walking toward me.
This woman’s name is Ruth, Sheila is the little girls name
Ok Ruth, what’s up?
I feel that I’m ready to go into The Light, but I want to know if I ruined her by keeping her with me?
Ruined her? 
Have I dishonored my daughter by keeping her with me?
HUMMM….I don’t know (I was perplexed on this situation) Why did you keep her with you?
She wanted to go, she saw her father, but I was afraid to let her go.
Why where you afraid to let her go?
I was too afraid to go myself, and I didn’t want her to leave me.
Oh honey…(this really touched me)
Well, let me tell you what I know: We all make choices and a lot of the time….you made this choice of you and not for her and I think you see that or you wouldn’t have come out of line to ask me about it. But she has Free Will too, and she chose to stay with you.
And regardless of what your motivation was, in the end, the child choose to stay with you.
Is that right Sheila?
Yes
So in essence, it was her Free Will, weather she stayed out of being guilty or sad or didn’t want to leave you, it was still her choice, what ever her reason was. Even if you stacked the deck against her because of your own fears of being alone.
But I will tell you one thing…Her father is still standing right there. He still waited. So…No harm not foul, so as far as I’m concerned. I don’t see how that could be. You child made a Free Will choice to stay and she choose to stay with you, she didn’t lose out on anything. Her father is standing right there, and your husband is standing right there, he doesn’t appear to be mad. He just came back another day. Just go in, deal with it, there is not punishment, there is only new awareness’, of why you did what you did, and your motivations and why you choice to make those choices. Now quit beating yourself up. You did no harm to your daughter, but now he’s waiting and she’s waiting and wanting to go. Go with her, now this time allow her to bring you to the next level. Ok?
Thank you
Your welcome.
The father embraced the child and the wife, I guess he passed before them. She didn’t think she was a very good parent and her overwhelming feeling of loss even lasted in death, Hum….interesting. They didn’t die at the same time, the mother and the daughter – mother died first, from some illness the daughter then died later in some sort of accident and the mother stayed with her the entire time, she wouldn’t let her go.
Gosh, she’s going to have to look at that…. That poor little girl lost two parents the father died in a motor accident, I don’t know what that means train, car, carriage, I don’t know I just get “motor accident”, when she was just an infant, she never knew him.
She died young, she’s about 12-13…they are all together now.
